Train or Flight

Travelling (Train or Flight)

What made us to travel through flight, the time convince or the first salary status symbol... Whatever the condition be!!! Travelling through trains tell us about how to judge life and deal circumstances in all the situation why today’s generation start creating a hype when they hear about TRAIN . 

Train show us the real India how even a so called rich person will treat the poor beggar. Does it affect them that much that they can’t even give 5 Rs coin /- How people judge or behave with the 3 sex gender(Kinar’s) to be precise  !!! Fighting over the seats , creating a nuisance for not offering a exchanging seats with the needy aged person or whose going through the bad health … !!!!

TRAIN KA ROMANCE

The best love stories are those which are given hit while travelling to the unnamed destination or travelling to your own hometown!! How a stranger becomes so special to you that you two start knowing each other, talking with each other that there’s no one else in the train apart from you two !!! How badly you two are loving when the train is accidentally getting delay in some station that you have some more time to spend with each other and even you two face the moment when the particular station come and he/she has to leave you ..

Some train love stories leads to an eye contact then over instagram or facebook request and slowly and gradually goes with the feeling ..And yet the memories gets refreshed every time you travel through trains .

Have you ever heard that we have a national  flight museum no!! but yes guys we do have a Historical Rail Museum which is in (Chankyapuri, DELHI).What we need to do Alter our perception about travelling in train .. and filter our journey plans with trains if we have ample amount of time !!!

We are glad that we are evolving with time but we need to alter our time for some Train romance or meeting interesting new people or filter the human nature!

Settle Down Or In

Settle Down Or In

So, Last night i got a call from my best friend and she told me that she has decided to settle down , i was about to congratulate her when she finished her sentence "with Ayush" . So guys , why do you think i stopped and took my time to congratulate her. The dilemma arose between her and my definition of the word  SETTLE. What she meant by settling was getting married to a guy. But if you see closely, that's not settling down; that's settling in . "Settling in with the society "!. According to Indian societies, the word "settle" means to get married, have kids quickly and form a family. The society has indirectly forced upon everyone this equation. People fail to understand that this is not life. Reproduction and family are not so important that you kill your dreams and interests. Marriage maybe a union between two families but sexual relationship between a man and his wife is personal, not a topic of discussion for anyone else. It's the two of them who should decide when to have a baby and how many to have. And amidst all this, both- the husband and the wife have to sacrifice a lot of things they could have done. So many dreams remain unaccomplished, so many desires unfulfilled and so many things left unattended. How does this establish the word SETTLE, I fail to understand.

SO , if this is settling in and then what does it mean to settle down? Basically what settling down is that we are independent , living our lives according to our own selves without any terms and conditions , like it's our way we wanna eat , how we are going to dressed up , with whom we need to share a bed with , do we need to space up our level of comfort with a girl or guy etc . So settling down means that the person has decided to live his life in a particular city , with his dreams and aspirations. There's absolutely no need for him to be answerable to anyone out there regarding what they do , how they do , what creativity they have ! Do they booze, with whom their hooking around or whatsoever they might be doing. There's no harm in settling in but it definitely is not an equivalent of settling down. And settling down does not necessarily have to mean to go against the society.

What we need to alter is our perception about being settling in and settling down and just filter out our mind and just settle down!!

“And suddenly you know ..It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings .”

Lust or Love (The other version)

Lust or Love

What Love means to boys ??? For boys feeling of love for a girl cannot be build overnight ! they go through various tacts of life before let going their feeling , but as usual it's not true in all the cases, some can undergo the feeling of love within 60 sec! Oh, Bhai dekh wo ja rahi hain teri bhabhi and haan bhai tere bhai ko pyaar ho gaya!! (to be precised)😜 

But , yes life do throw some tantrums on our boys too , some just fall in love , but also get unlucky with the time ,sometimes the status of fame , and his billionaire personality can also make him the victim of  a Relationship which is running because of his social status !!

Why ,do boys  always prefer or fall for the body type , or the false beauty is showing off!

why can't they go for Sapiosexual beauty .. or a beauty with good nature  ??

Beauty fades as a person grows older , what remains is the pure soul , good hearted human being in the end .We're not saying you alter and judge every girl out their. But what you can do is filter the assumptions about love what you've made on your particular state of   mind . Hookups are cool rather ,we are here in 2017 were relationship starts and sustain over trust or feelings later, but first it checks how correctly  you both bond for the very first time and goes stronger by the time . But we need to understand that all things are not that liberal.

We just need to stop altering.All we need is to filter our thoughts and start loving the human being as it . !!

“Kya Pata Kahin Na Kahin Koi Pakka Shiddat Se Intezaar Kar Raha Hoga ! “

                               

Lust or Love

LUST or LOVE

"What love means to girls"??? From the very first date girl starts developing for the boy she is been started dating with , for her life becomes more colourful , as if she was living a comma attack life or whatsoever 😂 ! But well life starts dealing with her in a different manner , glorious photographs, romantic nights , late night calls , unexpected craving for chocolates, butterflies in her stomach , the clearing glowing skin and what not , but yes uncertainly her dreams end when she comes to know that her man is only for hookups (SEX) i mean by the way elaborating the team , why our brain can't alter the decision when we are choosing to go on a date. why just can't brain filter  the boy's characteristics and tell us about it! 

See god has made everyone of us unique in our own terms ! Why , we need to compare ourselves with anyone else. Some of us are born fat , or  some are thin , it what god has decided his/ her creativity on us , we start need to feeling happy in our skin type! IF we just comparing ourselves in the terms of random guy ... Oh girl ! your just doing the biggest mistake of your life , why we have to run our life according to a guy , god has created us as an independent soul , why we need  to worry about others! No,  one is ugly or bad looking the only thing which matters is someones perception towards you. Feel beautiful the way you are ! why a curvy girl should be curious about her curves , oh girl you've got that curves because your the only who can carry it .than others ... Or i will say ,

When you have it Just Flaunt it  !

Aur 

Kisi ne sach kaha hain 

                                                                                                                                                                                                     “ Koi Pyyaar Kare Toh Tummse Karein ..Tum Jaise Ho Waise Karein ..Koi Tum Ko Badal Kar Pyaar Karein Wo Pyaar Nahi Sauda Karein .” 

Be happy , that's all what you want to be loved by others !

Seek In or Out

Finding way is the most difficult phase one can come from ! What if, we cannot find the way we want to achieve,  will just seeking on stuff without hitting the most possible way to seek out. 
Why seeking out is so difficult for oneself ! seeking out can be the infinite number of problems. Starting from finding someone or something by looking for them in a determined way to look out carefully for people or thing around you in order to find a particular person or thing !
Seeking out in relationship can be finding a way to check whether it is love or are you just seeking the validation ? when  you don't know your own worth. Either we can seek out for the opportunity which we are missing because of our impulsive mind and nature.

What we need to alter is which kind of information we are seeking in is affecting us.

Our impulsive mind sometimes can't even find the way for simple problems and lead to big troubles! Filter the troubles find out or just seek out situation , that what #alterfilterway says , talk to friends,family,sibling your loved ones anyone whom you trust or you can rely on! And , what if you don't trust anyone , 😆😆 just seat down somewhere go with your favourite song with cup of hot chocolate or beer😜, write down what is going wrong & what needs correction. Build your challenges and goals and , my friend you're sort out from the whole situation.

Keep smiling because #alterfilterway is their to seek out you're problems !

Swipe up/down

It has been said ,when life gives you lemon, make lemonade .But what if  life is swinging with a roller coaster twist ,sometimes as a human we cannot decide whether we have to swipe up that phase or just swipe it down. We're just hanging to alter or filter the situation.

Human brain is full of question , it takes 10,000 impression for one silly decision!why can't we be as impulsive as baby without any fear just go for our goal, that would have made life more simpler right? but no we as human specially "ADULTS"will exaggerate the state of mind.

So, my friends whatever the condition be or whomsoever it may concern (Family,Friends,Boyfriends or Girlfriends,sibling or etc ) just swipe up the page of life alter the circumstances ,filter the consequences swipe down the sadness of life and be Happy😊 Because they're thousands of reason to be happy